tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post4539712154124636355..comments2024-02-11T02:09:23.512-08:00Comments on An Inch of Gray: The HourAnna Whiston-Donaldsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14921348961654008115noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-59514094260580372972014-10-15T11:46:17.413-07:002014-10-15T11:46:17.413-07:00Those are very powerful words that Jack spoke! I h...Those are very powerful words that Jack spoke! I have lived 7 years past my mother who died at 56. It wasn't until I reached 60 that I really started to wonder about the rest of my life. Sadly I haven't done much about it yet so I better get busy. I spend my days still reading blogs, being on Facebook and Pinterest. I had a dear friend tell me one day "You are spending your days reading about other peoples lives instead of living your own!" Debby@Just Breathehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685398064340027809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-69000785311980051812014-10-15T10:49:07.301-07:002014-10-15T10:49:07.301-07:00Beautiful post. I have no idea what is next for me...Beautiful post. I have no idea what is next for me on the other side of Devaststion Day, the day my daughter died suddenly. I too feel like I have one foot on each side of the veil and pretty much exist in a new dimension. I remember in happier days driving with my family of 5 to Florida and stopping on I95 to take a pic of my kids with one foot in North Carolina and the other foot in South Carolina, never imagining what life had in store for me. I am still working on what is next and I, too, hope there will be peace and joy on the other side of this. It helps to see someone moving forward with a positive attitude. It shines a bit of light for me. Thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-56562804662787303742014-10-14T20:09:46.988-07:002014-10-14T20:09:46.988-07:00I will be 44 this year, and I'm more and more ...I will be 44 this year, and I'm more and more aware of the time flashing by. I appreciate it so much more. I love hearing Jack stories, and this one is no exception! I think it's wonderful that he found his sweet spot. Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13598792501741861659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-72695330322490249832014-10-14T20:08:45.828-07:002014-10-14T20:08:45.828-07:00Anna,
I just finished 'Rare Bird' this aft...Anna,<br />I just finished 'Rare Bird' this afternoon, and found myself wanting to know even more about sweet Jack and Margaret. As I was picking my daughter up from gymnastics tonight, I looked over at the car next to me, and a young boy of about 12 had hair that reminded me of your description of Jack's floop :). I thought to myself, Jack's mom would sure like that hair cut. Many prayers to your family as you continue to navigate this new journey. Jennifer R.The Roudebush Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07569397863754149909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-21976870716661375602014-10-14T15:26:30.600-07:002014-10-14T15:26:30.600-07:00Still trying to get by. Home improvement televisio...Still trying to get by. Home improvement television is my past time. I try to make meaningful memories with my daughter, and think of you son whenever we are doing something, to determine whether he would have loved it, or been scared, or what. Melissanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-78458640765078335902014-10-14T14:49:50.519-07:002014-10-14T14:49:50.519-07:00I don't know. But I love that you make me thi...I don't know. But I love that you make me think about it. xo.anymommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11317877435130121894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-56937478303896904512014-10-14T14:00:00.932-07:002014-10-14T14:00:00.932-07:00Happy Birthday and I know it will always be bitter...Happy Birthday and I know it will always be bitter sweet, because you will always feel your life is not whole. Your posts give all of us who never ever suffered this look at life different. You have so much to look forward to with Margaret, and to not let her feel left out because of her brothers death. Someday when she is a mommy and has a little boy that she may name Jack, you will see that living was worth it. We have family member that lost a 2 year old to cancer who died on his Dads birthday suffer(especially the mom) for the past 15 years. The one child that was 4 at the time is hit the hardest, but the other 2 that came after have no memory of who their older brother was. But Margaret will. I hold you in my thoughts and prayers, you are amazing. DinaDina Ochshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04230730450408831366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-75246811525434795292014-10-14T13:44:15.054-07:002014-10-14T13:44:15.054-07:00I remember that post Anna, and thinking how very h...I remember that post Anna, and thinking how very handsome Jack was in those photos (and ALL his photos)! And I remember too, just wanting to get past the age of 52, because that was the age that my dear Mother died. Life does go on, and we just hold on and weather the storms and enjoy the happy times. I always keep you and your family in my prayers. Happy Birthday to you, Anna!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-37091056522821951652014-10-14T12:10:31.777-07:002014-10-14T12:10:31.777-07:00With one foot here and one foot there, I've si...With one foot here and one foot there, I've signed with an adoption agency at 44!!! clearly I've gone insane. I'm trying to live more hereAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05327574737954838250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-17244041026891455962014-10-14T09:48:04.464-07:002014-10-14T09:48:04.464-07:00I know in your hour, you've inspired many. Hap...I know in your hour, you've inspired many. Happy Birthday! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-33550506993401769642014-10-14T09:23:20.772-07:002014-10-14T09:23:20.772-07:00*****I have the hope of heaven, and like many bere...*****I have the hope of heaven, and like many bereaved moms, I operate with one foot here and one foot there. (YEsssssS) Death holds no sting or fear for me at all anymore. YEssssssssS!!!<br /><br />You. Inspire. Me.<br /><br />GREATLY.<br /><br />Beautiful. Just Beautiful.<br /><br />HAPPY 45th. xxMy Inner Chickhttp://myinnerchick.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-29368937018961176492014-10-14T08:56:28.120-07:002014-10-14T08:56:28.120-07:00Interesting that this is your topic today. The to...Interesting that this is your topic today. The topic at our Compassionate Friends meeting last night was simply, "What next?" We talked about this interim time and how to make it meaningful.<br /><br />I didn't pipe up last night because it was a larger meeting. Since your topic is similar, I'll pipe up here. <br /><br />What's next for me is a blog I've been working on setting up. I've decided it's time, as my Facebook posts are nearly always about what I'm going through after losing my 19-year-old son. I joined a writer's group and carve out time to write at a coffee shop while my little guy is in preschool.Jenny from the Blockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06254694886482151872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-26135507681850938032014-10-14T08:38:45.731-07:002014-10-14T08:38:45.731-07:00I spend my fair share of time on tv etc too, but f...I spend my fair share of time on tv etc too, but feel most centred when I take the time and risk to truly connect to others.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-58687400331661643902014-10-14T08:26:49.077-07:002014-10-14T08:26:49.077-07:00that quote is one i still remember from high schoo...that quote is one i still remember from high school english. and just recently i used part of it in the book i'm writing (saying how high school was a good place to strut and fret for this one particular girl..) and what about now? my greatest accomplishment (so far) has been being a good parent. now that my own birds are (mostly) fledged, i can focus more on making yet more meaning in my own life, which is telling stories that help make the world a better place.tthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04233537895280175345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-81591161061200631692014-10-14T08:10:11.157-07:002014-10-14T08:10:11.157-07:00Like the book, "The Five People You Meet in H...<br />Like the book, "The Five People You Meet in Heaven", I think our lives are rich with meaning even when we don't realize the impact we are having on someone else.<br /><br />The 40's are good. I'm working on embracing my 50's. (I have a five year old who helps keep me young - yes I actually got pregnant for the second time at 45!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-87154090323150267932014-10-14T07:44:28.449-07:002014-10-14T07:44:28.449-07:00Happy birthday to you! Wow, those pictures of Jac...Happy birthday to you! Wow, those pictures of Jack are breathtakingly gorgeous and bring tears. Wishing you peace and love.Stephnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-26155210133769550252014-10-14T07:21:41.888-07:002014-10-14T07:21:41.888-07:00Anna - I love this posting of yours. I know I hav...Anna - I love this posting of yours. I know I have read it before. Absolutely true and heart-felt for me are your words...I have the hope of heaven. I live my life with one foot here and one foot there [words a bit different]. Death has no sting for me anymore; I no longer fear it....and while I look forward to the glory and promise of what heaven holds for me, I know that this life holds great meaning. I too am unsure of what my life holds next, but I intend to make it meaningful, and experience its loveliness <3Carolyn Rillnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-2169270561076256092014-10-14T06:11:04.458-07:002014-10-14T06:11:04.458-07:00Such power in your words. I am always, always bett...Such power in your words. I am always, always better because of your amazing writing. Thank you.run4daysbillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10499581323906946556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-60073074967741117602014-10-14T05:48:36.264-07:002014-10-14T05:48:36.264-07:00Happy Happy Birthday Anna dear! Happy days will c...Happy Happy Birthday Anna dear! Happy days will come to you all year. If I had a wish, then it would be, a happy happy birthday to you from me!Loriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00265291139472314921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-65565402051194638762014-10-14T05:37:10.887-07:002014-10-14T05:37:10.887-07:00I love this post Anna, thank you for the food for ...I love this post Anna, thank you for the food for thought. Also, WOW is Jack handsome. IrishRN07https://www.blogger.com/profile/11904458918696728980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-55834610425607266402014-10-14T05:27:42.248-07:002014-10-14T05:27:42.248-07:00 Sometimes life is most significant in its Un awes... Sometimes life is most significant in its Un awesome hours. Birthday blessings. Theresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05122120224537171341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-37539558352557315762014-10-14T05:15:56.120-07:002014-10-14T05:15:56.120-07:003 years ago, at age 48, I decided I wanted to make...3 years ago, at age 48, I decided I wanted to make a difference. I had always thought that volunteering at an animal shelter would be too sad for me. I finally took the plunge and started volunteering. It is sad there, but it is so fulfilling to know that there are a lot of dogs and cats in homes today that would not be alive if I had not helped to get them out. I also have about 100 new wonderful dog rescue friends. In the south where I live there is a constant stream of animals turned in to the shelters and a dire need for volunteers. There are not as many homeless dogs in the north, but we do send lots of animals up your way for adoption and they need people to coordinate their journey. Perhaps you could help an animal rescue organization. I highly recommend it!Kristienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-71943035749656292652014-10-13T22:35:03.710-07:002014-10-13T22:35:03.710-07:00Reading those lines and thinking of your sweet Jac...Reading those lines and thinking of your sweet Jack brings tears to my eyes. <br />Wishing you birthday blessings. Karen (formerly kcinnova)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08965093440928340819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-88163355240962759322014-10-13T18:16:50.581-07:002014-10-13T18:16:50.581-07:00I love your honesty and openness. Every time I rea...I love your honesty and openness. Every time I read your posts, I'm left with a better perspective, one that isn't so self centered. Harperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02438656758505872597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7334921515741798160.post-22349205083043118812014-10-13T15:09:19.637-07:002014-10-13T15:09:19.637-07:00I've been pondering along the same lines. Sur...I've been pondering along the same lines. Surely there is more to life than sitting in front of a screen all day and all night.Gigihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05467164195744234746noreply@blogger.com