Friday, December 23, 2011

Christmas Card Outtakes

Today we venture to the dark underbelly of those perfect family Christmas card photos. I give to you the Donaldson family, circa 2005:

Come on people, the clock is ticking!

Uh-oh, Mom put on her crazy eyes!
Focus, people, focus!


Maybe, maybe... Oh crap, Jack, what are you looking at?


Trying to keep my eyes open enough for ALL of us. Is Hillary Clinton in this family?


We're losing the women-folk!

Maybe? Not terrible?


Really? How hard is this supposed to be?


Hmmm...


Are those smiles or tears? Not sure. I can't see past Mom's pointy nose.


Could we just photoshop Margaret's face on?


I'm thinking there's no turning back at this point.


A winner??? Nope. Unless boogies, tears, and Mom's double chin=Christmas cheer.


Forget those little people. How 'bout just Mom and Dad?


Better yet? Or is that a wee bit self-centered?


We ended up giving up that day, and going with just the cute kids:

Merry Christmas! Much love to you. Please keep praying for us.

135 comments:

  1. MeganDecember 23, 2011 at 12:11 PM

    Thinking of you and praying for you this Christmas. Hoping you feel His peace and love.

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  2. Formerly known as FrauDecember 23, 2011 at 12:23 PM

    Merry Christmas Anna....surrounding you with loving prayers and thoughts.

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  3. SuzieDecember 23, 2011 at 12:32 PM

    Love you, Anna

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  4. ItsBridgetODecember 23, 2011 at 12:57 PM

    Those pictures are priceless!! I've been through it and the best picture ended up still having tears in it. :)

    Merry Christmas! Love and prayers to you all.

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  5. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 1:04 PM

    Laughing so hard.....that was great, Anna..

    Thank you again for sharing your family with us. Will be praying for you and thinking of you especially often these next few days...

    Love,
    Lisa G. in CT

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  6. Kristina P.December 23, 2011 at 1:08 PM

    These put a smile on my face! You look beautiful!

    Merry Christmas!

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  7. Ellen aka EllieDecember 23, 2011 at 1:19 PM

    Well, since you said please.

    Of course.

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  8. lindsayDecember 23, 2011 at 1:21 PM

    Always praying. More coming than usual this emotion charged week.

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  9. NanaDianaDecember 23, 2011 at 1:41 PM

    I pray for you EVERY day..because I just can't stop thinking about you and your family. I pray that God grants you some peace and joy even in the midst of all the pain. Sweet, Blessed Christmas-xo Diana

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  10. AnneDecember 23, 2011 at 1:43 PM

    You all continue to be in our hearts and prayers.Thank you for sharing your family memory's with us.May God continue to watch over you,wrap his arms around you all and shine his mighty love to you and your family.Peace and blessings.

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  11. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 1:59 PM

    This made me smile. Thank you. You're in our prayers.

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  12. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 2:16 PM

    I know how hard it will be on Sat night/Sun morning...just feel it and remember we are here with you!
    Here is hoping there are smiles thru the tears
    ..thanks for sharing with us.

    Peaceful holidays to you and yours..all of yours!

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  13. Laura at Ms. Smartie PantsDecember 23, 2011 at 2:42 PM

    You're beautiful and funny, luck Tim! Great memories for sure!

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  14. miaDecember 23, 2011 at 3:12 PM

    I pray for you many times a day and your sweet family and little angel Jack will be in my thoughts and prayers this weekend. Much love from Richmond xoxo

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  15. KimDecember 23, 2011 at 3:31 PM

    This had me laughing out loud. I LOVE the outtakes. Praying. Hard.

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  16. JunieDecember 23, 2011 at 3:36 PM

    Oh, Anna, of course we will keep praying for you all.


    I can't bring myself to wish you happy or merry anything. But I do hope with everything in me that you and your family feel the peace that passes all understanding.

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  17. LDecember 23, 2011 at 3:39 PM

    Love these pictures! I wonder if cousins were a hindrance during the photo sesh?

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  18. CourtneyDecember 23, 2011 at 3:43 PM

    Hi Anna, words cannot express how I feel for you. I actually got caught up on your blog a few weeks ago, having not read it in six months or so. I cried and cried. Then I went and told my husband about it and cried some more. I immediately lifted you up in prayer. When I think of you, I continue to pray.

    I also wanted to mention another blog that made me think of you: http://mollypiper.com/category/grief/ Molly Piper lost her daughter a few years ago and is an expressive and transparent writer on grief, depression, loss, etc. I linked specifically to her posts on grief, of which there are many, but of course you could check out the whole blog. I know this Christmas is going to be so painful for you and your whole family, and I am lifting you up in prayer. Love and hugs to you.

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  19. Sue@Uniquely ChicDecember 23, 2011 at 4:10 PM

    Read each of your posts but don't always comment although you and your family come to my mind often as odd as that is for two people who have never met. I suppose it is a mother thing. Peace to you and your family, Anna, this Christmas and into the new year.

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  20. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 4:35 PM

    Anna I'm going to wake up Monday morning, take a deep breath, and take a quick look at my iPad and hope to see a post from you. A "Through our love for each other and Gods grace we clung together and celebrated our family and our Lord's birth". Because I know there's enough love in that house to see you all through.

    Down here in Roanoke I'm throwing some shine in the crockpot, cranking up the Mannheim Steamroller and saying a prayer for people I care for but don't know, waayyy up in NoVa.

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  21. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 4:42 PM

    I know! It's like corralling puppies.
    Sandie brown

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  22. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 4:47 PM

    Thing of and praying for all of you. You are doing a beautiful thing keeping the cyber world posted on how you cope. I suspect you are helping countless people dealing with bereavement feel less alone.

    On a lighter note..LOVE those photos. I see perfect photos from gorgeous people like you all and I always think to myself "They look like they belong in a Normal Rockwell painting AND everyone cooperates?" Frankly I get green with envy assuming you got that perfect photo on 1 try. It's refreshing to see that you too had the same troubles I do reigning everyone in.

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  23. MarinkaDecember 23, 2011 at 4:50 PM

    OMG, you do look like a very glamorous Hillary Clinton!

    xo

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  24. MelDecember 23, 2011 at 5:03 PM

    Merry Christmas to you and your family...

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  25. MelDecember 23, 2011 at 5:04 PM

    Merry Christmas to you and your family...

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  26. DawnDecember 23, 2011 at 5:22 PM

    Not ony will we keep praying as you maneuver through this first Christmas, you will ALWAYS be in our hearts.

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  27. luv2runDecember 23, 2011 at 5:23 PM

    I never stop praying!!!!!!!

    luv2run

    Merry Christmas to you and your family....AND JACK!

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  28. LauraBethDecember 23, 2011 at 5:57 PM

    Praying... Always, always.

    Peace to you, Tim, and Margaret. Know that so many people, in so many places, are praying you through this difficult first.

    Sending love and (((hugs)))

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  29. RachelSDDecember 23, 2011 at 6:12 PM

    Cute behind the scenes. :)

    I've never met you and only recently started reading your blog, but you're in my thoughts almost daily. My family participated in Samaritan's Purse this year because of Jack. I'm praying for patience and healing for you and your family. Hang in there, even if it's just a minute at a time.

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  30. AimeeDecember 23, 2011 at 6:37 PM

    LMAO!!! OMG... Absolutely Priceless! Margaret's facial expressions had me rolling. LOL!

    I can't tell you how hard it is to get a family foto, it's so exhausting to try to get everyone looking happy straight into the camera. FOE-GET-ABOUT-IT!!!

    MERRY CHRISTMAS & A HAPPY PEACEFUL NEW YEAR TO THE DONALDSON FAMILY. :)

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  31. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 7:08 PM

    I am praying for you. Just tonight my daughter kept climbing out of bed and wanting hugs. My initial thought was the usual, "ugh! Get into bed!" But like many other times recently, I stopped and thought of you, of your Jack and I just hugged and hugged and hugged her.
    I admire your courage and strength and I wish you nothing but peace and hope you find some moments to smile over the next few days. Sending love to you and your family.

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  32. gillianDecember 23, 2011 at 7:12 PM

    i think of you every day.

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  33. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 7:41 PM

    This cracked me up. Hilary Clinton WISHES she looked like you. You don't know this about me, but I too have a "pointy" nose. It has ruined more photos for me than I care to count.

    Hope you are all doing okay on this Xmas Eve Eve, dear Anna. Much love to you all.

    love,
    jbhat

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  34. ellaDecember 23, 2011 at 7:55 PM

    Praying for your family especially hard this weekend. Love the pictures.

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  35. AliciaDecember 23, 2011 at 7:59 PM

    You are so pretty! Striking, really.

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  36. Sharon @ Elizabeth & Co.December 23, 2011 at 8:00 PM

    Those photos and your commentary just made me smile! I know this will be a difficukt holiday, but I hope it helps to know that so many people are pulling for you and your family. Wishing you a calm and peaceful heart.

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  37. Kate Coveny HoodDecember 23, 2011 at 8:01 PM

    "Hilary Clinton" cracked me up. You look so pretty in those. But this is a perfect example of why we don't really have any pictures of all five of us. And our holiday cards (of which there have only been two since Oliver's first Christmas) never include parents. But then we've talked about that...your friend wouldn't approve.

    You have been a constant in my thoughts the past few days. Love you.

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  38. Lynda Halliger Otvos (Lynda M O)December 23, 2011 at 8:11 PM

    Thinking of you and your family as this unprecedented holiday season rolls itself onto the scene. Know you are loved by one you will never meet--I lift you up to the Universal Healing Power.

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  39. A Speckled TroutDecember 23, 2011 at 8:27 PM

    In many ways, you are the loveliest person I've never met. Peace.

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  40. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 8:34 PM

    God bless you for blessing us with your humor when we need it too! I was afraid to peek (and perhaps not submitting by doing so!).

    Can tooootally relate to the picture thing! I growl at the pinching of bottoms and moving out of position but can fake the smile. Scott...not so much! In our first set, Scott looked disgusted with his family and he's never not been picture perfect.

    We love you all and know you'll lean on our loving God for strength. You will get through these next few days with lots of prayer!

    Love, Karen

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  41. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 8:35 PM

    Merry Christmas Anna!
    I love this post! So funny! I pray that Your heart is filled with peace this Christmas.
    Always thinking and you and praying for your family
    Much love,
    Kelly R

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  42. StimeyDecember 23, 2011 at 8:35 PM

    Christmas card photos are tough. But you have such a great story in that series of photos. And the one with just the two kiddos is perfect.

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  43. MariannDecember 23, 2011 at 8:40 PM

    These are beautiful....and so much fun to see! ....and Hillary Clinton WISHES she looked like you! My dear, you are beautiful! None of us have stopped praying for you and we won't. We haven't stopped talking about Jack or thinking about Jack or wondering what Jack's Christmas in Heaven will be like.
    (That was probably the worst grammer ever) Praying Christ's healing love and peace over you, Tim and Margaret. Much love, Mariann Alicea

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  44. ErinDecember 23, 2011 at 8:46 PM

    Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
    Love,
    Erin

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  45. prenni5December 23, 2011 at 8:49 PM

    Laughing and relating!! Thanks for sharing as always. Merry Christmas to your sweet family!

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  46. Lynda DiPasqualeDecember 23, 2011 at 8:51 PM

    I laughed. I cried. I related completely. Thank you for sharing. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you all...I am blessed to have gotten to know Jack through your words and images. May God continue to hold you close.

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  47. PatriciaDecember 23, 2011 at 9:19 PM

    Thinking of you all and praying so hard for you......Much love to you all - you are in all of our thoughts and prayers.

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  48. Kim/reluctant renovatorDecember 23, 2011 at 9:21 PM

    Sending your family healing thoughts and prayers this Christmas.

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  49. KoriDecember 23, 2011 at 9:38 PM

    hugs and love to your sweet family....

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  50. AnonymousDecember 23, 2011 at 9:50 PM

    <3 <3 <3

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  51. Rachel ElizabethDecember 23, 2011 at 10:34 PM

    These made me laugh out loud. I hope you find reasons to laugh this Christmas. You are in my thoughts.

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  52. UnknownDecember 23, 2011 at 11:15 PM

    Oh family photo are brutal. Yours do look perfect in spite. :-)

    I think about you every day and pray for you all the time - my thoughts are especially with you today and tomorrow.

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  53. Debby@Just BreatheDecember 23, 2011 at 11:22 PM

    Thank you for sharing these precious pictures. I will never stop praying for you and your family. Merry Christmas. ((HUGS))

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  54. macmac524December 24, 2011 at 2:02 AM

    Woke up tonight thinking of your family and realized I wanted to send this. Have you seen the Flickr photos of blue ribbons for Jack? This is from my little boy.
    http://www.flickr.com/photos/pstaples01/6563242137/

    Praying God carries you gently through the next 2 days....

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  55. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 4:30 AM

    I love Anna.

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  56. UnknownDecember 24, 2011 at 5:16 AM

    I am laughing so hard over each of those photos. Classic, really. Thought of your family as I drove my wound up children around to look at neighborhood Christmas lights. Praying for slivers of joy amidst your grief. Thanks for a glimpse of your outtakes. :) Merry Christmas to the Donaldson family!

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  57. LisaDecember 24, 2011 at 5:46 AM

    I laughed while scrolling through those. Getting a family photo is near impossible for us, too.

    Praying for you all, as always...

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  58. UnknownDecember 24, 2011 at 6:21 AM

    That was great. I'm glad to see we are not the only family that is hopeful for 1 decent photo out of 100. Praying for your family this Christmas. You have been amazing!

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  59. Jessica {Team Rasler}December 24, 2011 at 6:25 AM

    The commentary is every bit as funny as the photos! We almost always have to go with just cute kids, too. Merry Christmas. I'm praying for all of you.

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  60. LizbethDecember 24, 2011 at 6:45 AM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  61. Sally @DrinkingFromMySaucerDecember 24, 2011 at 6:52 AM

    Thinking of you, and yes! -- praying. Have a blessed Christmas.

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  62. RachDecember 24, 2011 at 8:47 AM

    Wishing you a peaceful Christmas.

    My prayers for you and your family continue.

    Many hugs,
    Rach

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  63. RottenMomDecember 24, 2011 at 9:34 AM

    I will. I pray for you and your family every single day. May GOD lift you and carry you and hold you tightly in his arms over the next few days. XO

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  64. Carrie BrownDecember 24, 2011 at 9:53 AM

    These made me laugh so hard. Thank you for sharing them with us:) Love you guys!

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  65. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 10:47 AM

    You are a brave, strong woman.

    Merry Christmas.

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  66. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 11:19 AM

    i don't think there is another person alive that i've never met that i like and love as much you. these pictures are priceless, and perfect, and your commentary on each is hysterically funny and accurate! God bless you and your family, sweet anna. Praying, praying praying for you all.

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  67. LauraDecember 24, 2011 at 11:49 AM

    You are stunning . . .
    Your family is beautiful . . .
    Thinking of you and yours every day - several times a day.
    Hugs from a stranger - who is wishing you continued strength. You are truly amazing.

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  68. andnowwearesixDecember 24, 2011 at 12:20 PM

    these are so sweetly real and absolutely precious. Thanks so much sharing them. We are thinking of you tonight and always. xo

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  69. JoriDecember 24, 2011 at 12:58 PM

    Merry Christmas! I pray for you every night. :)

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  70. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 1:03 PM

    Anna - Praying for you and your family. May you feel the presence of the Lord above and the knowledge that Jack is with Him and with you always. May the Lord bless you with strength during this Christmas season.

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  71. Ann ImigDecember 24, 2011 at 1:13 PM

    Hilarious and delightful. Anna, you all could not be more gorgeous.

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  72. JunieDecember 24, 2011 at 1:19 PM

    Stopped by again just to say still remembering, still praying.

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  73. Nichole@40daysofDecember 24, 2011 at 1:39 PM

    Merry Christmas to you, too! We're praying. :)

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  74. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 2:35 PM

    I have been reading your blog since September, but have never posted a comment. I have been so moved by your writing ... and your strength. I just want you to know that I am thinking of your sweet family this Christmas and will say a special prayer for you all. God bless.

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  75. j.sterlingDecember 24, 2011 at 4:49 PM

    there will be such a sense of relief once tomorrow has past. it's this constant dread counting down to the holidays, birthdays, anniversaries... i know how hard it is. and it has to be hard for margaret as well- thank God you have her, or who knows if you'd ever get out of bed to function each day. i will be thinking of you, sending you light and love and good vibrations (now the beach boys just popped into my head- random) and i will wish, for all of your sake, that tomorrow comes and goes quickly.

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  76. Nomads By NatureDecember 24, 2011 at 5:08 PM

    Endearingly hysterical! Keeping you in prayer and wishing you a peaceful Christmas despite the tears. You and your family are loved by so many and by God above all.

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  77. ClareDecember 24, 2011 at 5:51 PM

    Will NEVER stop praying for you. I love these photos. They show who you really are as a family! Merry Christmas Anna :)

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  78. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 6:15 PM

    Praying for your family during this holiday, and hoping you find peace and comfort. Merry Christmas!

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  79. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 7:40 PM

    I don't know you, but have been thinking about your sweet family all day. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  80. A Morning GrouchDecember 24, 2011 at 7:42 PM

    Fantastic. I think everyone should share their outtakes! Wishing you some peace this holiday season.

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  81. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 8:04 PM

    Just wanted to stop by today and tell you that my family and I are thinking of you and praying for you in a special way today and tomorrow. In the midst of all the Christmas goings-on, you are never far from my thoughts and prayers.

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  82. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 8:30 PM

    Wanted you to know that you & your family are being prayed for as God lays you on my heart. I continue to ask God to wrap His mighty arms around you and blanket you in peace that surpasses our understanding(and especially this evening & tomorrow). I recognize that nothing can take your pain away but I pray that the One who understands your pain will show up in such a way that you are able to celebrate Christ even through your tears. Thank you for being so honest through your grief and for sharing your precious son with us!

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  83. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 9:11 PM

    Love these photos!
    Hoping you and Tim and Margaret can find some peace and the comfort of warm loving memories to help soothe the pain of another "first something" without your sweet son Jack here beside you. Prayers ( for all four of you) are in overdrive all around the country for sure!

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  84. AnonymousDecember 24, 2011 at 9:33 PM

    You made me smile :) Love the pictures. God has just placed your family on my heart so often in these past months. I have a 10 year old daughter and a 13 year old son and your story just hit me so hard. I know only our precious Saviour can be giving you strength to get through the minutes, hours, days and weeks. I am so glad God sent HIS son to use so that we may all find eternal life in Him. We will all be together again one day. Love from Dawn in IL

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  85. carolDecember 24, 2011 at 10:54 PM

    It's Christmas Day ...I prayed for you. This is just terrible what you have to go through each day and each Holiday. I am so sorry.

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  86. Auntie MipDecember 25, 2011 at 12:02 AM

    I said Jack's name and your family's in prayer twice at mass tonight. Did you hear it? I prayed so hard that you would feel peace. Did you feel it? I prayed so hard you would know comfort. Did you know it? I prayed so very hard you would find hope. Did you find it? I'll give you a hint...He is swaddled in the manger!

    God bless you dear ones!

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  87. JulesDecember 25, 2011 at 12:45 AM

    Thinking of you, your precious family, and little Jack that many of us miss right along side of you tonight.

    I know he is watching over each of you tonight. I know it.

    Blessings for peace tonight, tomorrow & as you venture on. Many of us think of you every single day, Anna.

    Feel the warmth and strength from us. Look for Him. He is all around you.

    All is calm, all is bright.

    xo

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  88. MillieDecember 25, 2011 at 5:36 AM

    Logged on on Christmas day especially to send you love, thoughts and prayers from England. x x x x

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  89. AnonymousDecember 25, 2011 at 6:08 AM

    God bless you, Anna, and your beautiful family. You are in my thoughts every single day, as is your sweet Jack. What an amazing boy. I'm sending you hugs and prayers today and always. Peace to you, Tim and Margaret this holiday season. xoxo

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  90. PipDecember 25, 2011 at 7:01 AM

    I love a sneak peek behind the scenes - when the star talents are squirming and itching to do something else. Such a beautiful picture of you Anna! It's still Christmas here and I'm thinking and praying for each of you xxxx

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  91. Princess KateDecember 25, 2011 at 7:17 AM

    Let there be peace on earth for your family on this Christmas Day. Jack is in our hearts and minds today. God bless you all.

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  92. DeniseDecember 25, 2011 at 7:29 AM

    Thinking of you and your family today.

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  93. LauraBethDecember 25, 2011 at 8:02 AM

    Prayers, love, and hugs for you, Tim, and Margaret this day.

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  94. AnonymousDecember 25, 2011 at 8:08 AM

    Margaret will like this. A child's christmas in wales by dylan thomas (he reads it himself): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QjCJd9Bc-qA

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  95. AnonymousDecember 25, 2011 at 8:40 AM

    love to you today....looking at the little blue bird ornament on our tree...

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  96. LauraDecember 25, 2011 at 9:03 AM

    Thinking of you . . .

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  97. AnonymousDecember 25, 2011 at 10:12 AM

    Peace and much love to the Donaldson family....know that thousands out in the world are holding you all up today.

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  98. AnonymousDecember 25, 2011 at 10:14 AM

    I hope you and your family find some peace and joy on this day. You and Jack are in my thoughts and prayers today.

    Theresa

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  99. Vodka MomDecember 25, 2011 at 10:18 AM

    xxx

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  100. TheLabDecember 25, 2011 at 10:54 AM

    We've been praying for each of you. Prayed last night many times through all hours for Tim as he wrote the scavenger hunt poem. Prayed for Margaret this morning, and all of you. You are lover and more people than you can imagine are thinking of YOU and praying.

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  101. the mama bird diariesDecember 25, 2011 at 10:56 AM

    Praying for you today and always. Xo

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  102. helenascDecember 25, 2011 at 11:58 AM

    Father God, I ask that you would be with all who love Jack today.  May they support one another in love.  May they be of one heart and mind.  May they find comfort in the sweet memories that they share.  May Your love and peace be so strong among them that they are overwhelmed by Your goodness and give you all the praise despite their pain.  In the name of our Savior and Comforter, Jesus, we ask these things.  Amen.

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  103. DawnDecember 25, 2011 at 1:31 PM

    Just praying for you and your family today ... hoping for comfort and love for you.

    Dawn

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  104. OSMADecember 25, 2011 at 5:18 PM

    Just wanting you to know you all have been close to my heart all day long. I prayed for strength, courage, hope, and maybe a wayward Lego as a sign he is never far from you, ever. All our Christmas love and many warm hugs to you from Falls Church.
    xoxo,
    Erin

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  105. Cat AlfordDecember 25, 2011 at 6:56 PM

    My family and I are thinking of you today, Anna. We love you!
    xo
    Cat
    aka
    BudgetBlonde

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  106. JillDecember 25, 2011 at 7:21 PM

    Anna~
    I think and pray for you, Tim, and Margaret multiple times throughout the day. I know there are many of us trying to hug and hold your family in love. I wish that it were enough to change everything. Prayers, and prayers for you three.

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  107. JunieDecember 25, 2011 at 9:08 PM

    Thinking of you all and praying for you.

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  108. mosey (kim)December 25, 2011 at 10:03 PM

    Anna, I don't pray much as much as I should, but you my sweet friend are always in them. xx

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  109. ClareDecember 25, 2011 at 10:08 PM

    Thinking of you guys today, Anna. There aren't enough hugs and prayers that can be sent on a day like this.

    xo

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  110. Kim @ A Brush of WhimsyDecember 25, 2011 at 10:33 PM

    Those are too funny! Thinking of you all tonight.
    Kim

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  111. AnonymousDecember 26, 2011 at 2:16 PM

    Thinking of you some more....been praying at every thought.
    Love, Lisa G. in CT

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  112. AnonymousDecember 26, 2011 at 3:54 PM

    Funny post. Glad to see your sense of humor. I hope you had a nice Christmas. Prayers continue.

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  113. SusanDecember 26, 2011 at 5:59 PM

    Thinking of you and hoping you got through your first Christmas without your beautiful boy as best anyone could.

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  114. Miss Mustard SeedDecember 26, 2011 at 7:03 PM

    My oldest son is almost 5 and just getting interested in Legos, so we bought him a few sets for Christmas. As he was struggling to build something and I was helping him, I thought of Jack and thought of you and your family. I pray for you often.

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  115. Mama Up!December 27, 2011 at 10:29 AM

    Peace and love to your whole family from all of mine.

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  116. {darlene} @ fieldstonehillDecember 27, 2011 at 11:39 AM

    praying for you today. May His love SURROUND your family.

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  117. AnonymousDecember 27, 2011 at 7:19 PM

    Just writing again to let you know I'm thinking of you. Hope you are all doing okay.

    love,
    jbhat

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  118. JunieDecember 27, 2011 at 8:05 PM

    Just to let you know you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  120. SGDecember 28, 2011 at 5:43 AM

    I've been reading your blog for the past few weeks and never knowing what to say/write. Nothing ever seemed right - and I realize from personal experience, that it's because the situation is just not right.

    Then tonight I was looking thru some photos of our son (in what even the drs could only call a fluke, he passed away unexpectedly after birth) and found this quote.

    “There are stars who's light only reaches the earth long after they have fallen apart. There are people who's remembrance gives light in this world, long after they have passed away. This light shines in our darkest nights on the road we must follow.” The Talmud

    Thinking of you, Anna and praying for you and your family! I'm sure Jack's light is shining on you.

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  121. TheLabDecember 28, 2011 at 9:07 AM

    Just stopping by to let you know I'm praying for you right now.

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  122. AnonymousDecember 28, 2011 at 5:32 PM

    I am yet another anonymous reader you do not know who has been praying for you and your family since the terrible awful tragedy. I never comment because I know my words are meaningless... but I just wanted to let you know I am out here, and I am praying.

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  123. AnonymousDecember 29, 2011 at 4:56 AM

    Peace and prayers to you. Beautiful perspective in every way.

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  124. AnonymousDecember 29, 2011 at 9:34 AM

    Anna, I think about your family every day.
    Sending you so much love,
    Sophie

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  125. AnonymousDecember 29, 2011 at 9:41 AM

    I will always pray for you Anna. I pray to God that he blesses you with signs of Jack and that he allows you to feel his love forever.

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  126. LauraDecember 29, 2011 at 1:41 PM

    Stopping by to let you know I'm thinking of you - - and hoping Jack's bright light is shining down on you and wrapping 'round you in a warm hug, keeping his beloved Mother strong.

    “And if I go, while you’re still here . . .
    Know that I live on,
    vibrating to a different measure
    - behind a veil you cannot see through.
    You will not see me
    so you must have faith.
    I wait for the time when we can soar together again
    - both aware of each other.
    Until then, live your life to its fullest
    And when you need me,
    Just whisper my name in your heart
    . . . and I will be there."

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  127. DawnDecember 29, 2011 at 3:28 PM

    Thought I'd pass this along ... it's a couple of beautiful YouTube videos made by a young boy with a heart condition who passed away on Christmas this year. He talks about his near-death experiences in such a comforting way; it made me think of you and Jack. http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20557271,00.html

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  129. Orangies AtticDecember 30, 2011 at 6:09 AM

    I have found myself checking your blog for updates several times a day for the past week... just thinking about you and hoping this week you have been able to find a few moments of peace.

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  130. PatriciaDecember 30, 2011 at 8:37 AM

    Me too - checking daily and praying that you have been able to find some peace this week. Our heavenly Father will not leave you alone.....Remember the verse "Footsteps in the Sand" ? Let him carry you now....

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  131. CathyDecember 30, 2011 at 12:54 PM

    I have been reading your blog for the past 3 months. I have hurt for your family every day. We live in the same type setting as you...with a creek behind the house at the bottom of our cul-de-sac. We have 2 boys, 8 and 10, and a daughter who is 6. Our boys go down there quite often to play with their friends. I have told them your story...shared updates...cried with them over it. I have shared your story with countless people...to enlighten them and to pray. I talked to the father of the house by the creek recently about the dangers of the creek and flooding. He told me there are times it gets over 5 ft deep. He has 3 boys...7, 9 and 12. I can't even look down there without thinking of you and your precious family. What has happened to you has really hit me hard. I love the Lord and know we have to trust Him in all things, but this I am having a hard time understanding. I can't even imagine your depth of pain. Jack reminds me so much of my oldest...fun, quirky and innocent. Praying for you...

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  132. AlexandraDecember 30, 2011 at 6:48 PM

    Merry Christmas to you.

    xo

    I will never stop praying.

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  133. HeidiJanuary 3, 2012 at 5:09 PM

    Look at you! Gorgeous!
    Sorry I'm so late in being here. I gave up on all blogs over the holidays. Not on you, though. Never on you or your family.
    Love the photos and the outtakes. Sometimes they're the best ones.

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  134. UnknownJanuary 7, 2012 at 10:33 AM

    This post is absolutely hysterical. The pictures and your comments are brilliant and I am so glad you have them to share and save. I learned so much about life, God, and the list could go on- by reading your blog for hours last night when I couldn't sleep. Thank you.

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  135. AnonymousJanuary 12, 2012 at 8:10 PM

    Anna,
    I just finished sobbing for an hour reading your blog for the first time and I just wanted to say that I know that you are healing so many people through your generous spirit in sharing. For the first time in 36 years I have realized how angry I am with God for the bad things that happen to good people especially when it involves a child. That anger doesn't change my faith in God but to be able to acknowledge my anger feels like a load has been lifted off of me. I feel as though your example of strength and sharing in the midst of an unimaginable loss gives hope to those of us who live in fear of losing a loved one. Hard to put into words but know that my heart aches for you & your family, even though I don't know you all personally. I just cannot imagine what you are going through but I can say that you have more courage and strength than most. I read a book recently called Heaven is For Real by Todd Burpo. It touched me and I hope you will read it and feel comfort that Jack is in the most peaceful wonderful place with all the angels in Heaven!! As a child who worries incessantly about my parents well being, I bet Jack wants you & Tim to know that he is more than Ok. He even spelled it put for you guys with the crossword puzzle! So I'm sending you many Prayers for peace and comfort.
    Love, Dawn, Fairfax Va

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